We recently attended one of these couple therapy sessions. If you haven’t tried yet with your partner, you should really go!!!!!

Honestly, idk why it took us this long to go together. I’ve done it on my own before but like it can only go so far with only one person.

The therapy seem great. For the first time I heard things I’ve never heard from him in 7 years of marriage. Really important things like he admit he really wasn’t emotionally present during and after my second pregnancy, or that he agreed that I was suffering a lot on my own with postnatal depression. He thought it was awkward to bring things up, and he wanted to just get better.

But it was hard for me to take his hand, when there were so many unresolved hurt. The therapist explained that after many years I have learnt to cope with myself, I’m finding it difficult to open up. (sounds a lot like me)

Attending the therapy session actually made me feel that he was trying for me, and that itself made me feel 200% more happier.

I’m such a cactus. But what should I do, other than to go therapy? 😂